Emotional Power part 3

Practicing How to Get Along

We also can train yourself to have controlled emotions and make us loved and respected everywhere.

      Smile sincerely
A smile does not need to be made-up, it was a forced smile will only make the other person feel good practice comfortable.There formula 2 2 7. Smile with lips 2 cm wide and 2 cm to the kana to the left for 7 seconds.

      Greet with warmth
If the other person kinesthetic type, it's good to say hello, patting his shoulder. Kinesthetic people happy ditepu, felt himself noticed. Say hello to the greeting that makes him happy.

      Shake hands with enthusiasm
Do not shake hands too weak which indicates that we are not conversing with the spirit of the listener. Do not be too too hard to make the other person scream larena sick.  

      Listening advance
Many of us who want to communicate first listen, as if you do not want what happened to all that is yet unknown other person. Whereas the principle of communication we must listen well if we want to be heard well too.

      Follow the movement of the speaker
In one study, that we follow the movement of the speaker 7 seconds after he made certain movements, this creates a feeling of comfort and cooperation between the communicator and the communicant. However, the course must be proportional, not only made him feel offended because as abused.

      Identify frequency

      Know any other person's point touch
All of the other person have the educational background, professional experience and may bebeda with us. Begin communication with something that pleased him or her control.

      Set the tone, breath and rhythm of speech
Follow the rhythm of the voice and breath listener. If he talked casually, then were also relaxed.

      Face interlocutors
Stare at his eyes, so he was confident and felt appreciated his being. From the eyes we can know the truth of what he said. From the eyes anyway we can find out a little about the character himself.

      Nod every 5 minutes or so if you understand
Enthusiasm can be seen dar body gesture. Anggukkanlah head when we understand the words or the words. Nod 5 minutes once we understand the signs and listened.

      Remember the name
To remember the name of the other person, we can analogize with something we never forget. For example, he named Rena, and his hair curls, reminiscent of the chicken noodle in front of the house.